Permission to Offend with Rachel Luna

In her new book, Permission To Offend, Rachel talks about a concept called “Boundary Bullies”. Boundary Bullies are the people that have no disregard for you or your time, but what’s unfortunate is that every now and then, we become our own boundary bullies. 

 

This week on Permission To Offend, Rachel walks you through how to journal so that you can redefine boundaries in your life because at the end of the day, it's not about boundaries with other people that we need to focus on, we need to focus on boundaries within ourselves.

 

3 Reasons You Should Listen To This Episode:

 

1:20: How To Address Boundary Bullies

8:00: Journaling Prompts To Establish Boundaries

18:30: How To Enroll Others In Your Boundaries

 

Journaling To Define Boundaries 

 

 

  • “Boundary bullies are those people that just have no disregard for you or your time.” - Rachel Luna
  • “We need to focus on boundaries within ourselves.” - Rachel Luna
  • “We can all be better at keeping our word to ourselves and having more self integrity.”  - Rachel Luna 
  • “The life that you desire is not going to manifest with you quitting.” - Rachel Luna
  • “People that are born in captivity don't realize that freedom exists.” - Rachel Luna  
  • “Lean into your truth.” - Rachel Luna 
  • “Pure, truthful desires produce way more fruit than forcing myself to do something I don’t want to do.” - Rachel Luna 
  • “There is a way for you to create flow to your freedom.” - Rachel Luna   
  • “I’m ready to receive the blessings that I have been praying for.” - Rachel Luna 

 



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Links mentioned in this episode:

Direct download: 5BAUDIO5D20PTO86_Journaling20To20Define20Boundaries.mp3
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How tolerant are you of the ideas, opinions and judgments of other people? As a collective, we're a little too quick to censor people for having an opinion without first even trying to understand where that opinion was born. We have to be willing to have very difficult and uncomfortable conversations, and the first step in that is raising your offense capacity.

 

This week on Permission To Offend, Rachel breaks down the various OCQ levels, and teaches us how to combat having low offense capacity and give ourselves permission to become high level offenders.

 

This episode is brought to you by The Offense Capacity Quotient Quiz. Do you know your Offense Capacity Quotient (OCQ)? Giving yourself Permission to Offend isn't about being divisive or insensitive. It's about walking in your truth.In order to do that with excellence, you first have to see where your own Offense Capacity measures up. The Offense Capacity Quotient Quiz is a FREE assessment that will help you step into greater confidence so you can live unfiltered and unafraid. To take the quiz, visit: permissiontooffend.com/quiz

 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Direct download: AUDIO_PTO85_High_OCQ.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 8:00am EDT

How tolerant are you of the ideas, opinions and judgments of other people? As a collective, we're a little too quick to censor people for having an opinion without first even trying to understand where that opinion was born. We have to be willing to have very difficult and uncomfortable conversations, and the first step in that is raising your offense capacity.

 

This week on Permission To Offend, Rachel breaks down the various OCQ levels, and teaches us how to combat having low offense capacity and give ourselves permission to become high level offenders.

 

This episode is brought to you by The Offense Capacity Quotient Quiz. Do you know your Offense Capacity Quotient (OCQ)? Giving yourself Permission to Offend isn't about being divisive or insensitive. It's about walking in your truth.In order to do that with excellence, you first have to see where your own Offense Capacity measures up. The Offense Capacity Quotient Quiz is a FREE assessment that will help you step into greater confidence so you can live unfiltered and unafraid. To take the quiz, visit: permissiontooffend.com/quiz

 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Direct download: 5BAUDIO5D20PTO84_Mid20OCQ.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 8:00am EDT

How tolerant are you of the ideas, opinions and judgments of other people? As a collective, we're a little too quick to censor people for having an opinion without first even trying to understand where that opinion was born. We have to be willing to have very difficult and uncomfortable conversations, and the first step in that is raising your offense capacity.

 

This week on Permission To Offend, Rachel breaks down the various OCQ levels, and teaches us how to combat having low offense capacity and give ourselves permission to become high level offenders.



3 Reasons You Should Listen to This Episode:

 

1:20: How To Increase Your OCQ?

11:30: The Benefits Of Increasing Your OCQ

21:00: What Happens When Empathetic Offenders Rise Up

 

Increase Your Offense Capacity Quotient

 

 

  • “When we have a low offense capacity, it's very difficult for us to be offensive.” - Rachel Luna
  • “Nothing will help someone grow more than the truth of a friend.” - Rachel Luna
  • “In order for you to embody empathy and compassion and truth, you first have to increase your offense capacity.” - Rachel Luna 
  • “It's time for those of us who have a high OCQ to start being the leader.” - Rachel Luna 
  • “We have to be willing to have very difficult, very uncomfortable conversations, and the first step in that is raising your offense capacity.” - Rachel Luna
  • “If we find enough connective tissue with the people in our chosen communities, then we can start to create more good.” - Rachel Luna
  • “When I remain true to what I really want and I’m vocal about it in a compassionate, gentle, empathetic way, my health improves, my peace improves and my finances definitely improve.” - Rachel Luna
  • “We're a little too quick to censor people for having an opinion without first even trying to understand where that opinion was born.” - Rachel Luna 

 



This episode is brought to you by The Offense Capacity Quotient Quiz. Do you know your Offense Capacity Quotient (OCQ)? Giving yourself Permission to Offend isn't about being divisive or insensitive. It's about walking in your truth.In order to do that with excellence, you first have to see where your own Offense Capacity measures up. The Offense Capacity Quotient Quiz is a FREE assessment that will help you step into greater confidence so you can live unfiltered and unafraid. To take the quiz, visit: permissiontooffend.com/quiz

 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Direct download: 5BAUDIO5D20PTO83_Low20OCQ.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 8:00am EDT

How tolerant are you of the ideas, opinions and judgments of other people? As a collective, we're a little too quick to censor people for having an opinion without first even trying to understand where that opinion was born. We have to be willing to have very difficult and uncomfortable conversations, and the first step in that is raising your offense capacity.

 

This week on Permission To Offend, Rachel breaks down the various OCQ levels, and teaches us how to combat having low offense capacity and give ourselves permission to become high level offenders.

 

This episode is brought to you by The Offense Capacity Quotient Quiz. Do you know your Offense Capacity Quotient (OCQ)? Giving yourself Permission to Offend isn't about being divisive or insensitive. It's about walking in your truth.In order to do that with excellence, you first have to see where your own Offense Capacity measures up. The Offense Capacity Quotient Quiz is a FREE assessment that will help you step into greater confidence so you can live unfiltered and unafraid. To take the quiz, visit: permissiontooffend.com/quiz

 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Direct download: 5BAUDIO5D20PTO823A20What27s20Your20OCQ3F.mp3
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The ABC’s of Self Defense ft. Jennifer Cassetta

 

Trigger Warning: The following episode contains talk of miscarriage, pregnancy loss and the fall of the World Trade Center on 911. Listener discretion is advised. 

 

Welcome back to another episode of Permission to Offend. Are there any relationships in your life where you feel manipulated or vulnerable? Whether you need to physically, emotionally, or verbally remove yourself from a situation, it’s important to take stock in where you need to set boundaries. 

 

In this week’s episode, our guest is success coach, speaker, author and self defense expert, ​Jennifer Cassetta. Jennifer is on a mission to help women feel strong, safe and powerful from the streets to the boardroom and is here to unpack what she calls the ABC’s of Self Defense.



3 Reasons You Should Listen to This Episode:

 

8:30: Why It’s Important To Create Ceremonies & Routines In Your Life

17:25: How To Build Resilience From Our Past Experiences

22:00: How To Recognize The Mental Aspects Of Self Defense

 

The ABC’s of Self Defense Lessons

 

 

  • “Never cut down your achievements for someone else's comfort.” - Rachel Luna
  • “There has to be a true desire to want to do something, to stick with it. - Jennifer Cassetta
  • “Consistency is the product of finding the intersection between finding something that you love and something that you’re interested in.” - Rachel Luna
  • “Each of our lives is wonderfully special in our way.” - Rachel Luna 
  • “It’s important to build resilience from our past experiences.” - Jennifer Cassetta
  • “Each trauma prepares you for more resiliency.” - Jennifer Cassetta
  • “Be aware of your surroundings.” - Jennifer Cassetta
  • “Take stock in where you need to set those boundaries.” - Jennifer Cassetta
  • “Protect your energy and set boundaries energetically.” - Jennifer Cassetta

 

 

Connect With Jennifer:

Instagram: @jenncassetta |https://www.instagram.com/jenncassetta/?hl=en

She Warrior Confidence Course: https://shewarrior.teachable.com/p/she-warrior-confidence

The Art of Badassery Book: https://jennifercassetta.com/art-of-badassery/

Website: https://jennifercassetta.com/

 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Direct download: AUDIO_PTO_081_Jennifer_Cassetta.mp3
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Welcome back to another episode of Permission to Offend. Today’s episode is all about how to Lead With Love, which is something many of us struggle to do when it comes to our personal and professional lives! While it’s important to be yourself and express yourself even if no one resonates with you, I also believe that it’s just as important to find a messenger and a resonate teacher who speaks to your soul and aligns with your vision.

 

This week’s guest believes that there are no unique messages, only unique messengers, and I can’t wait to introduce to you Author, Business Mentor, TEDx Speaker, Poet, and Host of the Lead with Love® podcast, Jadah Sellner.



3 Reasons You Should Listen to This Episode:

 

1:10: Why It’s Important To Embody The Proof Of Possibilities

15:40: How To Gather Your Support Squad

31:14: Why You Should NOT Tie Your Networth To Your Self Worth

 

Leading With Love Lessons

 

 

  • “There are no unique messages, only unique messengers.” - Jadah Sellner
  • “Embody the proof of possibility.” - Jadah Sellner
  • “Lead from the inside out.” - Jadah Sellner
  • “Allow love to be in the driver's seat.”- Jadah Sellner
  • “As entrepreneurs, we need to be fluid and surrender to what life has in store for us.” - Jadah Sellner  
  • “Gather your support squad.” - Jadah Sellner
  • “We have to get comfortable with micro rejections.” - Jadah Sellner 
  • “It’s really important to not hook our networth to our self-worth.” - Jadah Sellner
  • “My approach is love over metrics.” - Jadah Sellner 
  • “Define your enough number.” - Jadah Sellner 

 

 

Connect With Jadah:

Instagram: @jadahsellner |https://www.instagram.com/jadahsellner/

She Builds Book: https://jadahsellner.com/she-builds-book/

Website: https://jadahsellner.com/

 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Direct download: PTO80_FINAL20AUDIO.mp3
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